The other day I got on the treadmill knowing that I needed to go at least 4 miles in order to get my work out in (and to burn off some of the caramel chocolate chip bars I ate all weekend long). I avoided it all morning and finally decided that I would get on and take the easy way out by doing only 2 miles. That's easy enough. However, when I hit 2 miles, the little voice in my head said, just go 2.5 miles, that's easy enough. And so I did. At 2.5 miles, it said, how about 3? I continued this pattern of self-talk until all of a sudden, I had talked myself into running 5 miles without hardly even noticing it. I love it when that happens! And I'm embarrassed to admit that I actually trick myself like this all of the time. You'd think I would catch on to my own little mind tricks, but NO. It works every time.
Now, I am a big believer of setting goals and I try to set all different kinds for myself. However, (as you know) it's consistently working on them that is the hard part. But over the years, I have come to realize that if a goal is too hard to stick with, then most likely the problem is not the follow through...the problem is with the goal itself. Goals, first and foremost, have to be reasonable and attainable. Just like when I feel that 4 miles is too long to run, I won't get on the treadmill. But if I set the goal to a more manageable one, like 2, then it is do-able and I am more willing to try to achieve it. In spite of this knowledge, at times I still find it hard to set realistic standards for myself and so I have to use little tricks to get myself through my
Tiffany